our top 10 relationship resolutions

January 2, 2013

Dear Toni, With the new year beginning, I’m contemplating whether or not I should commit myself to another round of overly optimistic resolutions. For the past ten years, my husband and I have taken time out of our busy schedules to...

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the model break-up

October 17, 2012

Sex with your ex? We tackle this dilemma and more. Dear Toni, I just found out that my ex is dating one of my employees. It was a very messy break-up, and now it has infiltrated my once-happy work environment. My desire to sit this...

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what’s under his clothes?

September 12, 2012

Is your man marriage material, or is he a dating dud? We strip down The Mama’s Boy, The Peter Pan, The Fraternity Brother, and more. Dear Toni, Help! I keep falling for the same guy over and over again. Whether we meet at church...

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sex, numbers & online dating

August 2, 2012

A modern twist on the age-old waiting game and some very revealing numbers. Dear Toni, I’m 22 years old and I just started seeing a guy I met on Facebook. Though we spent the last couple of months emailing and getting to know each...

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the truth about women’s panties and diamonds

May 29, 2012

Dear Toni, It’s been five years, and I’m finally ready to propose to my girlfriend. We’ve been together since college, and I’d like us to look toward the future and take that next step. However, I’m clueless about ring shopping, and if...

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does your man have a ‘work wife’?

April 25, 2012

A cautionary tale from the corner office. Dear Toni, My boyfriend of eight years just left me. I’m in total shock, and I never saw this coming. We owned a house together, and we were even talking about getting married. Apparently, he...

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